Whether
you've invited a few guests or a few hundred, you'll want to let them
know you're glad they've come. You'll also want to let them see you
up close to congratulate you and your new spouse. This is where the
receiving line comes in.
A receiving
line guarantees your guests a minute of face-to-face time with you
on your wedding day. With the more casual greet-them-as-you-see-them
approach, you may spend the whole party cutting conversations short
to say hello to people you haven't greeted yet.
The receiving
line can take place either after the ceremony or at the beginning
of the reception.
The
receiving line can take place outside the ceremony site's doors, in
the hallway, on the front porch, or near the reception party room
-- by the doors, cocktail lounge, or lobby.
Traditionally,
the bride's parents head the receiving line and are first to greet
your guests. The newlyweds stand beside them, followed by the groom's
parents. You can also include your honor attendants.
While
standing in the receiving line, you should introduce your new spouse
and your parents to all the guests they have not met. Accept the congrats,
hugs, and kisses and thank everyone for coming. It's that simple.
If you
have fewer than 50 guests, you can turn the cocktail hour into a meet
and greet instead of a formal receiving line. It's a very casual atmosphere
that lets you introduce your guests to more people.
At large
formal receptions, an announcer stands at the beginning of the receiving
line. He asks the name of each guest who appears, then gives it to
the bride's mother so she can make the necessary introductions.